What it’s like the be the DUFF

This is going to be short, sweet and to my point

If you haven’t heard of the term “DUFF” it is defined as…

DESIGNATED

UGLY

FAT

FRIEND

And that would be me.

I swear I don’t know why, but gosh I have the prettiest friends. I am constantly surrounded by my gorgeous friends when we go out so why would a guy hit on me when there’s like 5 other gorgeous options?

I absolutely love my friends don’t get me wrong, but I just always feel like I am the 5 versus the 10, or I am the chubby one not the fit one, I’m the funny one not the sexy one… well you get the point. Guys are ALWAYS coming to me for advice on how to ask me friends out or asking me “so whose your friend?” and I don’t think guys realize how much that is a slap in the face.

I am always happy for my girls, but I’m just impatient… when will it be my turn?

XOXO TOO INDEPENDENT

One thought on “What it’s like the be the DUFF

  1. Sorry you’re feeling down on yourself. Men/boys tend to look at “the pretty pictures” without reading the context, and when they think that way, they will always be disappointed in the end. They just think with their dicks. If they’re thinking of you as a friend, at least they trust you enough to be one, because in the long run a friend is actually what they’re going to need.

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